Whats it take to be a
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——————“24/7 Attractive Person”
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- A 24/7 Attractive Person is the end goal of Attracting People into your life all the time, every time.
- It means to attract people into your life without even trying.
- It is a State of Being rather than a State of Doing.
- It means to be congruent with how you act towards your family, friends, colleagues, and strangers alike.
It’s the End Goal of Finally being able to tell yourself: I Love My Self, My Life, and What I Have Become.
It means that you’ve mastered the most important relationships in your life:
- Self Realization and Well Being.
- Love.
- Friends and Family through Relationship Management.
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My story on Becoming a 24/7 Attractive Person
Growing up in my house was like a War-Zone. My family never got along, there were always fights: people always screaming and yelling–it was a nightmare.
I would take out my anger on my own family and be real nice with my friends to the point of being fake. I was always either or of two extreme personalities, I was either really nice or sometimes I’d blow up with anger out of no where.
For example:
I remember ended a date on an extremely disappointing note, my date felt the urge to critique me.
She said: I feel that when I first met you, you were so nice, charming, and endearing. But on this date, you’re so reserved, kind of obnoxious, and from time to time you argued with me on things that I felt weren’t such a big deal. I don’t know what your story is, but you have issues.
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Ouch! That hurt… I guess the truth can do that.
I came to realize years later from a self-help seminar, that it was impossible for me to always portray a very nice “Dr. Jekyll” without revealing a glimpse of the Evil and Ugly Mr. Hyde.
In other words, someone can only “fake the funk” for so long, after a while, a person’s true self will emerge it’s face. In my case, my other face was very, very ugly.
With the help from a self help company, I found out that my past, and how I dealt with my family affected all other areas of my life. It was only when I was confronted by my deeply rooted past and “inner demons” that I was able to understand why and how I turned out the way I did.
Once I finally surrendered myself to my past, I began a much needed self healing, I understood why acted the way I did towards others, and made dramatic strides to reconcile with my family.
People Started To Finally Like Me…
It was only when I started treating my family and close friends with unconditional love, that people started sticking around in my life for the long haul.
I learned that by truly understand and loving myself, my family and close friends…as a by product, I become more genuine and caring towards others.
This, combined with the “techniques” I had learned from Conversation Class, unknowingly, became a recipe for becoming a 24/7 Attractive Person.
Before this moment, I thought the secret to becoming Attractive anytime, and anywhere, was when I saw an opportunity to shine, to be charming and funny. But it only brought me short term results that often left me with nobody who cared.
It was only when I truly fixed myself in the areas of:
- Self Development.
- Conversation.
- Love.
- Relationship Management with my friends and family
That my life dramatically changed. I now understand that the secret to truly attracting people in my life can only be done through truly being genuine, truly caring for another person, that there isn’t an “on and off” button for being attractive inside and out.
That Attracting People Into our lives isn’t a State of Doing by “making others laugh,” or “by being charming”….
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