If You Are Short, Fat, Older or An Asian Man, You Must Read This. But Especially If You’re Short.

In my younger years, I was no doubt taken advantage of because I was your typical Short (5 foot 6) Scrawny Asian Kid. Growing up, I always felt like “the underdog,” that I always had something to prove. You could say I had the classic case of Napoleon Syndrome.

I’m sure that is why I wanted to date woman who were much taller than me– two inches taller, at least.

I went to as far as to title my goal/fantasy:

“David versus Goliath”

except my goliath was a woman, with curves…

But not only did woman have to be taller for me to date them, but they also had to be blond. For some strange reason, I woke up one day and felt this weird neurotic attraction towards blonds. The more I thought about it, the more enchanting they became to me…I’d imagine dating blonds sort of like the one you see below:

There was something about their platinum blond hair that memorized me…I even compared them to unicorns..

It’s scary now that I look back, I was like a moth to a flame. Blonds were so enchanting to me–I just got lost…

Ok, I know.

The whole thing is silly, shallow, pig-headed, absurd. I was blinded by my reality of what is beauty combined by my inexperience towards life. Thou’ I obviously don’t have the same outlook upon woman now as I did back then–Thank-God.

And for those of you who are wondering if I ever achieved my fantasy of David versus Goliath.

The answer is Yes. For awhile I dated woman who I consider not only attractive, but much taller than me in some cases, the tallest being 5 inches (5’11).

Here’s a little collage of a couple of blonds I’ve dated–Of course, I blurred their faces.

(Notice how that girl’s legs is practically the size of my body and head combined.. ha ha)

I thought back and fourth whether I should post pictures of girl’s I’ve dated or not. I felt that if I’m going to talk about the subject of tall woman who date shorter men, I should at least let you know undoubtedly that I do have some experience in this area.

On to a Very Intriguing Article:

So  ABC did this article years ago titled: The Ugly Truth About Beauty. Here’s a passage from the Article:

To see if women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS’ Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who’d made millions by the age of 25.

Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there’d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, “Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers.” Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she’d have considered the shorter men, if the taller men had been described as “child molesters.”

Child Molesters…. Wow! Is that a crazy thing to say?? Over-exaggerated even?

Being “short” myself, I found this article very interesting and related to it immediately.

Do Short Men have a fighting chance with taller woman? As you saw, yes. But let me tell you that the passage you have just read above holds true to every word with woman who aren’t used to dating shorter men.

For every tall girl I flirted with(at least 8 a night) when I went out, I ended up getting at least 6 of their contact information, went out on dates with 3 of them and ended up dating 1 of those 3.

Ok, guys who read this might think: wow, those odds aren’t bad. But you have to keep in mind that in my quest towards mingling with people all the time, anytime. I’ve mingled with over 4,000 people in less than four years. All day, every day. And eventually learnt from mistakes to finally become charismatic, charming, funny… not to mention I had to work on develop communication skills non-verbally–which makes up at least 60% of human communication.

I agree that short men have it very, very hard. The discrimination short men face is more unfair than the discrimination overweight women face since no one has any control over his/her height and being short, unlike being overweight, being short does not mean you are physically incapable of things.

Honestly, ladies…You can get your own dishes from the top shelf. You don’t really need to feel “protected” from the dangers of suburbia. And why in God’s name is it important to stand on your tiptoes to kiss a guy?–Evan Marc Katz

what are your thoughts?

I wanna know tha truth!

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Tagged as: asian, Non Verbal Communication, short men

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