Have you ever a hard time letting someone know that you like them? Maybe you’re waiting for that “right-time” to say those three special non-committal words, “I like you”. What you may not know is that there’s more than one way to say those words, behold:
1. Give them what they say
“Two weeks ago you mentioned how you liked The Cheesecake Factory, so here we are.”
I love it when people quote me, whether they’re being charming, or trying to prove me wrong–I don’t care!
The very fact that someone makes it a point to actually listen and remember word-for-word what I said, is more than flattering.
It’s the little details like this, that will not only let someone know you like them, but also score you huge points!
People ask questions because they are interested. If they weren’t interested they wouldn’t ask questions. What you may or may know, is that asking many questions over time will is no different than directly saying, “Hello! I’m interested!” But be warned, asking too many questions can also backfire.
3. Eyes of Admiration
When you admire someone, your pupils automatically expand. There have been studies done that indicate a majority of people prefer others who show “eyes of admiration”. What you want to do is think of loving thoughts. Concentrate on how beautiful they are, or think of something you appreciate them for. Do this, and naturally, your pupils will expand. Eyes of admiration is no different from how you would look at someone you truly appreciate.
You may not notice it, but the next time you go out keep in mind how many people don’t touch each other upon first introductions.
People don’t seem to understand how much this plays a huge part into letting someone know that you like them. As a society we’ve grown used to the idea of not having psychical contact, this has much to do with the internet. With things like Facebook and Twitter, people are forgetting the importance to have human contact. I have a saying, if you don’t touch, you’re not going to have sex. That’s the truth.
5. Planning the night
Simply put, if you want to show someone that you care, you’ll “go through the trouble” of planning the night for them. Do this, by knowing your logistics.
This is a tricky one, because being jealous has a reputation of hurting one’s self image. If played correctly, it can actually help you out. Maybe the one you like is dating someone else, a simple comment such as,” Oh, I don’t know… they have rather lanky arms and legs, but maybe it’s just in that picture”. It’s comments like this that will show others you like them. People like to “feel like the prize”. And it’s O.K. to give in, under certain circumstances.
Ever seen two people argue, and in the “heat of the moment” they make-out while ripping each others cloths off. This happens because sexual tension is built. Arguing can be playful, and fun….just be careful, pick your arguments accordingly. You want to argue silly random topics such as “whose favorite food is much more satisfying, or who has better taste in sitcoms”.
8. Being near someone
Peoples want to be near others who they find attractive, so try to do this whenever you can to indicate you like someone. Maybe you see her or him alone in a room, make your way over there and drop a flirty comment, let the tension build and proceed from there.
9. Ask For Their Opinion
We only ask some one’s opinion if we respected them. Ask your new love topics that matter to you the most, more the personal–the better. We currently live in a world to where no one likes to share personal information, so when someone chooses to share something personal with you, now-a-days, it’s considered a privileged.
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